My thoughts on early marriage.

The meaning of marriage is when is when a man and a women pronounce as husband and wife. That time , both time make a vow to be as legal couple in their life. That's the definition of marriage. For today's blog i will be discussing my thoughts on early marriage.

Many boys and girls of today are taking their relationship very seriously because their to in love each other and can't let go of their relationship so much, their just better off marry at a very young age. For some, maybe it's good for them for their to marry early but for me it's just isn't right. The reason are that, the couples maybe not have a stable financial background. You think marriages are free?. No,you're wrong my friend. Any marriages requires many to carry out the wedding expenses such wedding rings, the wedding ceremony , the party gifts, the cakes and buffet and much more. Who's gonna pay all of it?. Your parents?. If you come from family of means, yes you could but chances are that the couples have to pay for themselves. In order to do that, that have to work first and save a lot a money for their marriage. Their is a saying " there's not such things as free lunch". This one of the reasons of couples having trouble right now because their not have a very good financial background. Usually couples marry at a very age such marry after finish their secondary school without continue their studies will cause them some serious trouble. Without jobs or money, how you wanna get marry?. The solution for this problems is hoping on their parents. These are the most common  escape goat for them to overcome this problem because many of their parents are willing to pay their marriage maybe because their parents loves their children so much. Paying for their expenses without any helping effort from their children. This like a free marriage for them. This make me thinking of today's couple are not being independent for their marriage because their hoping their parents to make their dreams come true. For me, what's the point of marry someone but you still can't be independent.

But there are many benefits of early marriage. One of which, that you will learn to adapt and adjust in your life. Imagine marriage is just a big party. In a party, there always gonna something happy, good, full of laughs, great things and maybe there's gonna sadness, downfall, losing or much more. In marriage, you will learn this. How do i know?. Because i ask my parents. In marriage, you will experience many emotions in your life. If you face any trouble or obstacle or fail something, you can still fix it and adapt it so that you wont do it again. So learning from early age at a early marriage, will make you to adapt in your life and you can make some adjustments to fit in your suitable conditions so that in the coming future if you facing the same or greater problems, you already prepare to face it with past experiences so that you can overcome with ease.

written by Umar Saifuddin Bin Mohd Shahar.